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Janet Lengsfelder

Janet Lengsfelder, LMFT

Therapist in California

Practical, relational therapy for lasting change

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  • Attachment focus
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Relationship skillwork

About Janet

Janet Lengsfelder is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 25 years of experience who draws on her background in nursing and long clinical practice to support people through emotional hardship. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, parenting challenges, addictions, and trauma. The tone is practical and grounded, aimed at helping a person feel steadier in day-to-day life.

Janet began her career as a nurse and then moved into mental health to address whole-person needs. She completed a graduate degree and a three-year Gestalt therapy training that deepened her approach to emotional first aid. That combination of medical and therapeutic experience shapes how she sees health and healing.

In sessions she helps people notice their habitual patterns and life themes so they can make different choices. The work centers on strengthening a sense of self and increasing emotional awareness. Janet aims to reduce overwhelming panic and catastrophic thinking so feelings of disappointment or sadness become more manageable.

Her style blends attachment-based thinking, client-centered listening, emotionally focused techniques, the Gottman Method for relationship work, and mindfulness practices. She encourages gentle risk-taking in service of growth, with an emphasis on learning from life’s challenges. Janet describes herself as a fellow traveler who witnesses and supports each person’s process.

She practices in California and conducts sessions in English. People who are considering starting can expect straightforward, compassionate guidance with a focus on practical shifts that help daily functioning.

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How these approaches work in online therapy

Janet often uses attachment-based ideas to help people understand how early connection patterns shape current relationships and emotional responses. That work focuses on noticing patterns and building new ways of responding to stress and closeness. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) is also a key strand; EFT encourages naming and working with core emotions in the moment to shift how partners or individuals respond to one another. Mindfulness techniques are woven in to help people calm intense feelings and increase present-moment awareness.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process and happens together. Janet will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. She adapts methods over time so the work fits the client’s needs rather than following a rigid plan.

Confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten check-ins when needed, and reduce commuting time. It can also make some kinds of in-depth emotion work easier to continue between appointments, since tools such as mindfulness practice and communication exercises translate well to day-to-day life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist often address?

Janet works with issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship problems, parenting strain, addictions, trauma and intimacy concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She blends attachment-based approaches, client-centered listening, emotionally focused methods, Gottman work for relationships, and mindfulness to support emotional awareness and stronger sense of self.

How much experience does she bring?

Janet has 25 years of clinical experience, including an early career in nursing followed by graduate study and additional therapy training.

What credentials does she hold and where does she practice?

She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, and practices in California.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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